6 Ways to Make Your New Years' Resolutions Stick
It's January 2nd! Did you set a handful of lofty New Years' resolutions that you're totally pumped to stick with yesterday? Do you think, come March or maybe even Friday, you might be struggling to keep those resolutions? Never fear! Let's talk about some ways we can make those resolution stick!
New Years is a super popular time to set goals. Your motivation is at a level 10, you have all kinds of enthusiasm, and you set off to get a gym membership, sign up for a class, or start working on creating your website (I'm looking at you, artists still using your Facebook or Instagram)! You are on a roll for a little bit of time but then something happens. Maybe you get a cold and have to take three days off of the gym. Maybe you have a run in with
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1. Ask Yourself Why
If you understand why you want to achieve this goal and that reason energizes you vs shames you, you're more likely to achieve it. For example, if you set a goal to lose weight because you "should," the result is
Why do you want to get your website up and running? Not because you "should" in order to look professional and legit -- that just makes you grumpy and resentful. You want to get your website up and running to improve your bookings, stand out as a top-notch professional artist, and live your dream! It's all
|Wants get you excited about doing them.
When we want to achieve a goal, we are more likely to stick with it than if we feel that we should achieve a goal. That enthusiasm and energy
|Break your large goal into multiple smaller supporting goals to give yourself the satisfaction of checking something off of your list sooner rather than later!. Image: http://kodjoworkout.com|
2. Make Them Small and Specific
I'm not saying to make your goals small, necessarily, although smaller, more achievable goals are the more successful of the bunch. Goals are more likely to be achieved when they are broken into smaller mini-goals. This creates an organized plan with lots of accomplishments that you can hit and feel great about! Who doesn't love checking something off of your list!?
Also, knowing exactly what you want to achieve is imperative to the goal's success. "I want to get in shape," isn't a super specific goal. What does that mean? Do you want to lose 10lbs? Do you want to commit to 45 min each morning on the
Another factor is the type of goal you set. Think of it as aspirations vs obligations. When you set a goal that you hope to achieve, you are more susceptible to
|...And maybe a friend to point out that you're eating Taco Bell for the third time this week
3. Create Accountability
If your goal is to eat better and no one knows about it but you, how guilty will you feel when you find yourself three Timbits into a 10-pack you intended to share with the office but got your hangry little
Talking about your goals with friends, family, and colleagues helps keep you accountable. Joining a support group is even better! Setting a time-frame in which to achieve your goal can also help!
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4. Incentivize Yourself with Money
This study found that people who were financially incentivized to lose weight lost 14 more pounds than those who were not. So, essentially, when you get money for achieving your goals or when you lose money for not achieving them, you are more motivated to get the work done. Health insurance companies do this by holding customers accountable to achieve health goals in order to keep a discounted rate. So, maybe you put together a group of friends who are all trying to achieve goals this year and develop a weekly fund that pays out to achievers and is funded by those who did not achieve their goals.
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5. Inform Yourself
When we encounter setbacks in our goals, that is when we tend to give up. Maybe you are trying to put together your portfolio this year and you just can't get a photographer to respond to your messages? That's discouraging and you may be tempted to throw in the towel. But don't! They key is to re-defining these setbacks not as roadblocks, but as opportunities to change your approach and try again. This article by Michele Solis explains how to do this by increasing your feelings of control and making use of your frustration:Increase your feelings of control
- Take a stance of actively learning about the process of reaching your goal. Every setback is educational and will help you learn how to succeed.
- See the journey to your goal as an adventure. Any setbacks are interesting twists in the plot rather than damning verdicts on your abilities.
- Reexamine your actions to find things you might have done differently.
- Look at the chance to try again as a gift.
- View persistence as a choice rather than a personality trait.
- Seek specific critical feedback. Detailed information can help you focus on what needs to change.
- Let it fuel your focus. Use it to draw your attention to what can be done differently next time. Doing so will help you see setbacks as valuable information.
- Look at the frustration as a healthy sign of caring about your goal.
- Consider the flip side. If you are not frustrated, maybe you do not care enough about the goal or you are looking for an excuse not to reach it. Figure out what you really want.
- Do not beat yourself up. Blaming yourself and feeling inadequate may prevent you from figuring out what to change on your next attempt.
- Decrease stress in general. People have a harder time coping with emotions when they are stressed out.
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6. Be Flexible
It's ok to give yourself a break and be flexible with your goal. Being too rigid can make your goal seem unachievable. Perhaps it would be more attainable if you adjusted the timeframe, made the conditions a little more lenient, or broke it into even smaller goals?
However, there is a difference between allowing yourself a hiccup in the plan or adjustments to your original goal and rationalizing that you will do something you know you're not going to do. Letting yourself have a cheat meal once a week is different than eating a whole pizza and telling yourself you'll just work it off tomorrow. You won't. You know it, so don't lie to yourself. Just adjust your goal to be more manageable.
What are your New Years' Resolutions? Let us know in the comments!
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